My Wife is Amazing

When I met Cyndi seven years ago, I never realized how much I would grow to love her more every day.  One thing I absolutely love about my wife is how incredibly intelligent and independent she is.  My wife has accomplished something that very few have ever done in such a short amount of time.

My wife has been out of college for 3 years now and in that time she has completed her Master's Degree.  She has been promoted from an Admissions Officer to Admissions Manager to Campus Director in just 3 short years.  What an honor to be given to her at 25 years.  This shows me that not only does she have the drive to succeed professionally, but her company trusts her.  She loves Strayer University and loves her job and it shows.  Another great accomplishment she has achieved is one of my favorites...she is the best Mom anyone could have (sorry Mom, Cyndi beats you out).  Since Micaiah has been born I have see my beautiful wife develop into the best mother.  I have always known of her compassion, her love, and her kindness, but to see bestowed upon our little boy absolutely knocks my socks off.

One thing that does drive me nuts is when people look so down upon this successful business woman because of her age or because they just may have something up their rear end.  I'd bet money any day that my wife would out work anyone, anytime!!  So to those of you who have ever said that she is lazy, or that she is unprofessional, or have just plainly said anything negative about this amazing woman of God, POO ON YOU!!!

My wife is a FAT HOT woman!

My wife is a FAT & HOT woman!
Seriously! I wake up in the morning and I am just in awe of this beautiful woman next me, so why in the world would I call her FAT?

Well, you see as a teenager my pastor told me, "Jeremiah," in his thick Mississippi accent, "Ya, need to merry you a FAT woman!"

I was like, "Dwyndl (aka Bro. D), what in the world are you talkin bout? Why in the world would I marry a fat girl? I want a fine, skinny, hazel eyed, brown haired hottie!"

He just laughed and explained that he was not talking about weight, but he was talking about a Faithful and Available and Teachable woman.

Almost 5 years ago, I was introduced to this really awesome young lady who played basketball for Taylor University Fort Wayne. She was a blonde-haired, blue-eyed, very attractive woman, but not really my type. However, there was something about her that really made me weak in my knees and so we struck up a friendship. She really did become one of my best friends. And through our friendship I realized what Dwyndl meant by Faithful Available and Teachable. Cyndi was all of these. I always knew I wanted a HOT girl, meaning that she was Holy Outrageous and Trustworthy. With Cyndi, I got this too.

We started dating January 6, 2004. I knew I couldn't live without this woman.

This past May, I married my best friend, the love of my life, my FAT HOT girl!

They say that the first year of your marriage is the toughest, but let me tell you that these last five months have been the greatest months of my life! I think I have not only grown more as a man, but as a man of God, a friend, and just a better youth pastor.

Here are a few of the top reasons why Cyndi is essential to me:

She encourages me like no one ever has, or could for that matter
She is one of the few people that I can actually lose myself in talking to.
I can just sit and stare at her all night long
She challenges me every day! In many ways you will never know, but she even challenges me spiritually.
She makes me laugh uncontrollably (like tickle me Elmo uncontrollable.)
I could never imagine life without her
She backs me up, even when I'm wrong
She corrects me with love
She smiles at my stupid hyperactivity
She is patient, even when I'm not
She completes me
She is God fearing, God honoring, God focused, HOLY, OUTRAGEOUS, and most of all trustworthy.

Cyndi, your the best friend I could ever have. Thank you for sharing my secrets, and being the love of my life, but most of all for being Jesus to me!